1 hour sessions and same day sessions are now being offered.

I wanted to announce that I am now offering 1 hour sessions (trial) to see how I feel about it.  

I am also offering same day sessions with 4-6 hours notice for an additional $200 fee.  (Again just a trial).  

1 hour sessions and same day appointments are something that I am constantly asked for so I am going to offer them; with some stipulations.  

VIP Packages- I will still be offering My VIP packages which offers great discounts,  Visit My VIP page.  This offers great discounts for multiple sessions.  Take a look at those and see if those suit you.  

1 hour Session-  If you are looking for a session for 1 hour I will offer these sessions for ONLY $300.  These sessions MUST be paid in FULL when you reserve the 1 hour option.  So instead of paying a retainer you will be paying the full session rate.  The rate is not refundable unless I can not make the session, in the event I can't make I will return your full session that you paid for.  1 hour sessions are intended to be shorter sessions, I can not provide a long detailed list of fantasy fulfillment and will be willing to focus on 1-2 of your fetishes and Kinks during our 1 hour session together.  If I feel I can not provide your fantasies and kinks in 1 hour I will be honest and suggest a 2 hour session.  

Same day sessions-  If you want a same day session you will need to add an additional $200 to your requested appointment (packages, outcalls and extended sessions and excluded) this is for 1 hour - 2 hour - 3 hour INCALL ala-cart sessions only.  I have the right to request a higher retainer or full payment at the time you book a same day appointment.  Keep in mind I can NOT guarantee a same day session.  You will need to fill out the Questionnaire and then CALL Me at the number located on My contact page of My site.  The moment you CALL is when I can assure the 4-6 hour time frame.  Do NOT email asking for a same day appointment, if you do this I will ignore your request.  You MUST call after filling out the Questionnaire; this is the only way I will accommodate a same day appointment.  I can not make special clothing requests that are extensive for same day sessions.  But rest assure I will always look fabulous.  

I hope these changes are something that you are pleased with and are able to utilize.  As always I do My best to provide reasonable rates for My Sessions.  Managing one of the largest private Dungeons in the DMV area does take work and I like to be best prepared for all of My sessions and clients.  

I will see you soon.  

On your Knees!  

Mistress Tiffany  

www.MindyourDomme.com

OnlyFans.com/mindyourdomme

Phone/Text sessions-  SextPanther.com/Mistress-Tiffany

Well Hello its Been Awhile.

I know it has been awhile since I have updated My blog here for you all but here I am...

updating My blog and I hope to be able to do that weekly.  

With that said I just wanted to let you know what is going on in My little COVID bubble.  

First of all I am still taking sessions and really never stopped, I just have been as cautious as I could be.  My only break was when I had plastic surgery back in September.  

Other than that I feel I have done My best to protect Myself and clients.  

I now am requiring clients to wear a mask in session as well as Myself, I know for some this ruins the mood, but we can make it pretty hot too.  

I have also limited the number of sessions I do to no more then a week.  This means I can book up quickly, but no worries I can also put you on a wait list if you call to book with no avail.  I do require all clients who book to pay a retainer to hold their appointment to assure sincerity so I am not taking up space or time for other clients or any partners who work from My location.  I am sure most of you understand this and I appreciate it.  

I did recieve My first COVID vaccine this past weekend and anticipate to be fully vaccinated by mid April at this point I will see clients unmasked if they and Myself are both vaccinated fully (you will have to show your card for proof).  

On another topic My partner Miss Jay has decided to separate individually from Bastille Dungeon as she wants to manage her own client calls.  Unfortunately I only work with Fem Dommes who are partnered directly to My dungeon, although they are independent; because Bastille Dungeon is a Private Dungeon and as someone who has been managing and running dungeons for 20+ years I prefer to manage all bookings and client calls to assure the safety, privacy and discretion of My own private space and sanctuary.  With that said I do hope to have a more "rental" friendly space in the future for Pro-Dommes to utilize that is more commercial, but as many know My space is private and I intend to keep it that way.  It also can become confusing with multiple Dommes doing individual bookings with only 1 space available and I just do not want to run into that potential train wreck.  

Miss Jay is an Intelligent Woman who will continue to strive in the professional BDSM community and I am glad that she understands My policies regarding My feelings on Me booking all clients personally for My Private Dungeon.  As always all partners who work with Me are independent contractors who manage their own emails, social media and although I create their websites based on what they want; they do have complete full access to update and manage their schedules.  (I just wanted to clarify that).  All the best to a great Lady - Miss Jay.  We are still available to tease, taunt and torment you for duo sessions.  

I want to than you for taking the time to read My recent updates and I hope you all continue to stay safe and take care of yourselves.  

On your Knees!  

Mistress Tiffany 

Updates for October.

I am always excited for the Fall, it is My favorite time of the year.  

Most of you may have noticed I took a month off from mid September to Mid October.  

I wasn't traveling nor did I go on a big adventure but I did do something pretty big.

Most people would not be so open talking about this but I do not have an issue sharing what I did with My time off.  

After years and years of wanting some plastic surgery I finally went and did it.  

I was under for 7.5 hours where My surgeon performed..... 

• An Extend abdominoplasty (Tummy tuck) where believe it or not they removed 15 lbs of skin! (I know sexy stuff eh)?  But can you imagine the transformation that made?  
• I experienced Liposuction in many areas from the flanks, back, and along the side of My breast (under the arm).  
• I also had a Brazilian Butt Lift Where the surgeon added some enhanced curves in My hips and bottom (More ass for you to worship).  

Admittedly the recovery has been pretty intense but I am finding Myself more active from doing some shopping, My nail and pedicure appointments etc.  

I still have some recovery ahead and need to not do any strenuous Physical work during Sessions such as physical domination or anything that intense as I have been instructed My My surgeon and plastic surgery team to not do anything that will cause any strain in the abdomen.  I have been cleared to continue to work though.  

I will not see fuller results until a few months post op, but I have to admit the results I see now are amazing already and those who have gotten to see Me can see the huge difference already and you will see them too! 

Because I am easing back into sessions I do prefer to do duo Sessions with My Partner Miss Jay and we are actually offering specials for a week upon My return.  Specials are located on My site on My contact page along with My schedule.  Make sure you pre-book,  

I am capable of doing sessions that are not overly physical if you desire a solo session with Me. 

I am looking forward to returning to sessions and am looking forward to trying on some new outfits for our sessions together. 

Happy Fall!  

Mistress Tiffany  

Finally - Some Updates for The month of August 2020

Well hello, it has been some time since My last blog update; but here I am!  

I have a lot of information for you here that I am excited to announce so take it all in stride.  

1.  I am excited to announce that My New Dungeon is up and operational, although I am still working on some aesthetics; clients are loving the new space. I hope you will enjoy it too.  It has been fun doing some painting (I am still working on more design texture painting) but the space is lovely.  

2.  Miss Jay is now accepting sessions again.  Make sure you read her COVID information on her site by clicking here.  

3.  Google voice sucks - Apparently after using google for over 8 years with the same number they have decided to disable My number.  Although I hope to get this resolved, I do have another phone with a number you can use - 202-913-4602.  

4.  I have changed My phone hours to when I will accept your calls to book your reservations.  Those New hours are Noon-10pm.  The early hours have been cut out for calls but I have extended My phone hours for you.  

5.  I will be taking an extended sabbatical September 16th - October 14th.  Miss Jay will still be available and My OnlyFans page will be active with content and I will be available for some Texting/Sexting phone sessions on SextPanther some.  However, I will be refraining from in person sessions during this time.  (I will update you on more later or you can follow My Twitter - Instagram - or OnlyFans to be in the know.  

6.  While taking sessions I made the decision to keep My rates the same but have changed My minimum sessions to 2 hours instead of 90 minutes.  

7.  To open My Dungeon properly I am offering Specials (Located on My contact page of My site) as well as specials being offered between Miss Jay and I.  I hope this specials are something you can utilize.  I am offering VIP sessions still but they are for packages that include 2 hours or longer.  

I know this Pandemic has thrown us in for a loop but I have so much going on and am excited that I have been able to share it all with you.  

Thank you to those who have donated to help Me and My partners during this time, the cash app donations as well as PP donations, gift cards, cash gifts and even just the few sessions I have been able to do have been helpful.  Thank you for your continued support of Myself, partners and My Dungeon; La Bastille Dungeon.  

We are taking every precaution to be safe.  Keeping the dungeon clean and sanitized, checking temperatures, providing PPE to those who prefer it, limiting sessions we accept and providing filtration through the air to help kill germs.  We have always used Medical grade cleansers and will continue to do so.  

You can show continued support through

cash app -  $TiffanyDomme

Joining My Only Fans - OnlyFans.com/mindyourdomme

E-Gift cards to -  MindyourDomme@gmail.com

Thank you and play safe.  

On your Knees!  

Mistress Tiffany  

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NOVI-19 Update. What Sessions will I be offering during this time?

COVID-19 UPDATE:

I am still offering live in Person sessions selectively to healthy Low risk clients.  I am limiting My sessions so please plan accordingly.  My Dungeon is cleaned with medical grade cleanser between every session and I also have level 3 medical masks.

In the event that you can not see Me for an in person session I am offering webcam, Phone, text, and distance Training.

If you are lonely, need someone to talk to or chat with on cam I do offer counseling and consultation sessions as well as BDSM webcam/Phone sessions

I practice social distancing and am persistent on hand washing and sanitizing.

You will find My space clean and My habits in session to be clean as well.

Email to inquire about sessions - MindyourDomme@gmail.com or simply follow the booking instructions on My contact page.

Stay safe everyone.

Session Information on My site on My sessions page.  www.MindyourDomme.com

Mistress Tiffany

I’m a Dominatrix not a fetish model

 I guess many can debate what is the difference between a professional dominatrix and a fetish model? 

 Can there only be one or can they be combined?  

 Personally I know a few good professional dominatrices that have been fetish models and fetish models that have turned into good professional dominatrices.  But I have to say the feedback that I receive from most of my clients that see the typical “fetish model/dominatrix“ ends up extremely disappointed with their session. 

 I find that I have different types of clients that contact Me, fortunately I’m pretty good with marketing I should be that’s My background; sales and marketing. So I tend to attract the right type of clientele.  For Me however there is the rare occasion where I may get a client that is purely a fetishist and has no interest in any sort of submission that’s wanting the more “fetish model type“. 

 This is where I like to remind people that I am a dominatrix not a fetish model.

 Now I have to admit I have done some Fetish modeling in the past.  But any woman just about can put on some make up do her hair and put on the right outfit that some people may stereotype as a dominatrix yet that doesn’t really make that woman a dominatrix.  

 Being a professional dominatrix takes so much more than a good pair of boots and a cat suit.  

 Domination although to most seems purely physical in actuality is 100% psychological. 

 Domination is not purely about pain. Domination is about control and if anybody reads most of the content that I write throughout different social networks that is the one thing that I consistently push; Reminding people that domination is not about physically harming someone, domination is about power exchange one person giving up control willingly and the other person willingly yet  strategically taking control. 

 Many clients are unhappy with seeing a fetish model because a fetish model may typically be accustomed to seeing clients that are happy with a woman who goes down the checklist that stays detached during her session.  Many fetish models also do not deeply study BDSM nor their clients. The clients that feel satisfied with fetish models tend to be predominately attracted to the Woman looking more like a model. Yet many who want to submit are learning that the “model type” can only take you so far. We don’t pick a doctor based off their looks. Why should you select a dominatrix based purely off their appearance?  Again don’t get Me wrong I can understand that a part of our job is the way we look and carry ourselves. Being attractive, feminine or some may prefer a more masculine look either way there is “a look” that people may find appealing. And I understand that for most clients being attracted to the person they are being Dominated by is an important factor. But men need to think before they just going out contacting a Dominatrix.  Some people think that because a Domme does films that she knows what she’s doing. (I am not saying that all film Dommes are bad, many are good). But people call this stuff BDSM “porn” and for Me hearing the words BDSM and “porn” together just does not resonate. Yes Domination is hot, it’s sexy, it’s arousing but when I think of porn I think of sex.  

So when it comes to Women who are doing films it is usually acting. It is someone going through the motions. It is disconnected. It’s just a scene. 

Now if you’re involved the Domme needs to know you, she needs to understand your body physically and your mind and psyche emotionally. Connecting in a session is important to Me whether I see someone once or multiple times. And personally it is making sure that I find that rare way to bond that makes Me a Dominatrix and not just a Fetish model. 

I am highly selective with whom I choose to see. I don’t just take someone’s money and go through the motions and disconnect. I make sure they are able to submit and let go and learn to trust Me during our time together (Thia is why I do not do 1 hour sessions). 

I appreciate each individual that I session with and everyone’s submission is different and unique and it is My job as a Dominatrix to be able to safely and consensually help my clients fullfill their BDSM and Fetish fantasies. It is a responsibility.  And anyone interested in becoming a professional dominatrix should educate them continuously throughout their career.  

And this is why I am a dominatrix first and always, not just a fetish model.

I really love what I do. 

On your Knees! 

Mistress Tiffany 

My New Dungeon La Bastille Dungeon.

It has taken a lot of work but I have finally got the bulk of My 1500 sqft Dungeon/Playspace done. 

I had My first private party over the weekend and I have to say I am in some pain, it was a lot of work not only getting My space done in time for the party, but also getting the rest of My place acceptable for guests; after all I just moved less than a month ago.  But I am excited that My friends and party guests enjoyed the space.  I received very positive feedback. 

Out of all the playspaces i have worked in and owned this is the largest I have had to work with and as a friend told Me "Uou will NEVER be done with this space because you will always be moving stuff around, adding things to it and changing it up." and I have to say My friend is right.  It is a space I can always add to and do things with, that is the amazing thing about it. 

Now that the bulk of it is done, I hope My clients know it is time to come and play. 

I'll write more about it, in the meantime enjoy the few photos I have added here; keep in mind the photos do not really give you an idea of the size, you'll just have to come see it. 

On your Knees!
Mistress Tiffany

P.S.  I included a photo of My outfit and blond wig from the Dungeon Opening Party. 
None of the photos are professional.  All are candid I will have a professional photographer come in to capture the space better.  It is really amazing. 

My Opening party attire.

 The second sitting area around the Bondage Frame.

 My very good friend made these for Me, I love them.  

 The photo below is before the walls were done in the main area. I still had a lot of work to do but got the sitting area in the main area done and it is now complete.  I will post more photos soon.

I am still working on the Boudiour area of the Dungeon but it is looking amazing.

This is where I am going to put My new latex vac bed.

Eros has changed their policies.

I can't lie and say I do not find it annoying that Eros has changed so many of their policies from photos to text in our ads and now we can no longer post our WEBSITES! 

We are only allowed to keep a phone number and email address. 
I personally find that doing this will make it difficult for both Pro-Dommes and clients to find quality. 

Most of My clients appreciate My detailed website and the information and reviews on My website. 
I also appreciate clients who take the time to read My website and email Me or fill out My questionnaire. 

Now we have Women who can just post ads with pictures and a number there is no website or effort put into their business and text is limited now on Eros.  FOSTA (google it if you do not know what it is). Is really messing up our rights, those of us clearly of age and independent should not have to deal with this.  And now clients can suffer by meeting Dommes that may not have the experience level that the client requires which can lead to a dangerous session for the client. 

I am putting a plan to step forward for Pro-Dommes separating professional Dominatrices from prostitution (We are completely separate and different). 

I have heard too many horror stories from clients who have had bad experiences with Dommes who clearly do NOT know what they are doing and I plan on doing what I can to help clients find quality Pro-Dommes. 

I know there are still Pro-Dome directories out there and I suggest that clients stick to those because our websites are there.  This is My best suggestion for now. 

Share your feedback with Me. 

On your Knees!
Mistress Tiffany

Curvy, skinny, full figured, or strong Pro-Dommes

As a Pro-Domme we are all lumped into that group of "adult entertainers" but let's face it for those who have met Me we all know I am the one who is being entertained (as I say I love My job).  

With that I have seen and met with so many Fem Dommes who are doing videos now along with their sessions to supplement their income and meet the high demand of men who prefer to keep their BDSM online only.  And with that Women are now feeling the need to do bizarre or extreme diets to be what men think they should be even when they are perfectly healthy and beautiful.  Fuck that! 

I find it extremely important to be healthy...

Fact I use to be 300lbs and a size 26, I am NOW a size 18 and lost a significant amount of weight and enjoy heavy lifting and stronglifts. I am healthier now then when I was in My mid 20's (yes I'm still young but adding a decade and still maintaining health is awesome).

At the same time I find Myself plateaued, if I do too much heavy lifting I gain weight (I easily bulk up) so I have to alternate that with some cardio and am about to add some yoga to My routine to help My overall well being, body flow and core. I feel being strong is an important aspect of My job as it can get very physical But I do NOT do all of this just for the purpose of being an "entertainer" to have a certain physique; in fact many men may find thinner Women much more appealing than a Woman of My stature, but then again every man and person for that matter is attracted to something different and some find My physique to fit what they want.  I do what I do for My overall health.  I have no interest in starving Myself, I have no interest in living in the gym 7 days a week hours on end (I do have a life you know and besides too much gym time can raise your cortisol levels Read here about this.) But I have been known to be in the gym 5-6 days a week and I have lowered Myself back down to 3 days because this is a happy medium for Me although I may sneak into the gym more often than that.  My point is I simply have no interest in being an extremist when it comes to having to starve Myself to fit the Hollywood mold of what men want Women to look like.  

I feel I have a unique and rare type of beauty and have been told this, I love being a curvy Domme who is strong and I believe My clients would concur.

I have happily assisted clients with behavior modification to help them as well with their health and one of My goals is to get officially certified in nutrition this year.  

I hope when men look at Women they admire them for their own individual beauty whether they be skinny, curvy, plus size, soft, strong, tall or short.  After all as Pro-Dommes we are looking at your naked asses all the time and not judging you, although you can argue that you are "paying" us as a Dominatrix so we should fit the mold as an "adult entertainer" and what you may find sexy.  However, I will not let someone dictate that I need to starve Myself or maintain a extreme diet to fit what they feel a Dominatrix should be because the fact is I am a Woman and I no longer have the metabolism of a teenager.  I am healthy, strong and fucking gorgeous and I will own that and no one no matter how much they pay Me can make Me believe in anything different.  I am paid for My expertise not to be your sex doll at your will.  I am a firm believer that all Women should be appreciated, we all work hard in some way to own our femininity (or most do) and I hope My clients appreciate My efforts as well as others even if we do not fit with-in that lumped up group of what folks may think an "adult entertainer" should look like.  

On your Knees!

Mistress Tiffany

Does Fem-Domme=Bitch?

It's seen everywhere and for some guys they like the bitch attitude but for most it is an overdone act by Women who think this is what Domination is about.

I always remind My clients I can get bitchy just like anyone but I do not feel "acting" like a bitch is the basis for the persona of what a Fem Domme should be.  

In fact I think the whole intense "bitch attitude" is a turn off for many guys, but let's face it, some guys are piggys who do not care when it comes to seeing a 20 year old bent over or blatantly in a sex stance position.  There is something for some men about that male ego.  Do they think they might "get lucky". Does it validate them that they get to see someone who displays themselves so blatantly?

These are the same men who come to Me later complaining about the horrible experience they had with a Domme they did not research.  They complain that the session felt disconnected that the Domme may had just barked orders and some complaining about Dommes who just scream and kick at them.  There are a many variety of beautiful Women who are Dominant out there, but if a man is looking for a quality Dominant who has some experience then he should learn to think a bit with the head on his shoulders rather then the one between his legs.  

Unfortunately Pro-Dommes do not have to go get a degree, but good Pro-Dommes will be versatile and will educate themselves and involve themselves in their local lifestyle scene some as well as investing in equipment, toy's etc. 

I love what I do and I say this time and time again; I am not angry, screaming or behaving like a mean bitch, all these attitudes are very negative and that energy is not something I personally want to have as the basis of My sessions.  I am sassy, assertive and confident in My sessions and in what I do and that's what My clients will find with Me, not a bitch. This is about having fun and doing it safely.

On your Knees!

Mistress Tiffany  

I'm back from Vegas, what an amazing birthday week!

I do not even know where to start.  

First I want to thank My slave for taking Me on an amazing Birthday adventure although he may debate the adventure is keeping up with Me in Las Vegas.  

Realistically I thought I wanted to chill.  Have a little "Me" time, maybe read a book, but My slave kept Me busy!  

We arrived Tuesday to an amazing suite with full kitchen, separate bedroom, living room, 2 bathrooms, and a balcony overlooking the strip and pool.  

We got in late and got settled, unpacked, then I took My must have after travel shower and slipped into the bed under the down bedding with My extra pillows.  

Tuesday when I woke up, room service was ordered and I sent My slave to the drugstore for some toiletries I forgot while I soaked in the jetted jacuzzi tub in our over-sized bathroom.  

While he was out, I recommended dinner reservations but the control freak I am; I wanted to make them, so I did want to hear his suggestions on what he may find appealing (of course we all know I am going to select what I want at the end of the day).  

Being the good boy that he is he did not suggest a type of food (good boy), he simply stated it would be nice to go someplace a little funky, fun and Las Vegas style.  So as I sat in the jacuzzi I went through google on My phone looking at the many fine dining options Las Vegas had to offer and then I finally came across a place called Meat Bazaar.  The decor was fitting and the food looked creative and different so I booked the reservation prior to our Zombie burlesque shoe that he booked for us after dinner. 

Dinner was amazing and the champagne and wine selections along with the food were mind blowing. 

When we got the bill I told My slave to just breath as he looked at the check, he admitted it is the most money he has spent on a dining experience but one he said was more then worth it. after all it was about 9 courses; We did the tasting menu which was the way to go.  So if you're in Vegas this is a dining experience not to miss. 

After dinner we proceeded to The Zombie Burlesque show which was fun and hilarious and then we ended up at a bar where I was fed drinks by the patrons for My birthday (it was after midnight) including a group of 21 year olds who bought Me a shot. 

Then somehow we ended up in a limo at an all Female strip club, that was fun watching My slave sweat as I had Women giving him lap dances.  I'm not sure he knew quite how to behave so I would just grab his hand and tell him to touch them (you could touch these dancers, with-in reason).   

And then I woke up (thankfully in bed).  This was just My pre birthday evening.  

Wednesday the day of My birthday I kept pretty mellow, after all the night of champagne, mimosas and shots were strongly lingering in the form of a hangover.  

My slave made reservations at the spa for Me at our hotel and I made it for My 11am services which included a full body scrub, massage with foot scrub and a facial, that was pretty close to a hangover cure as anyone could get but it was still there, I just kept hydrated.  

When I was done I had room service for lunch while I facetimed My family who all sang happy birthday to Me.  

I made time for another soak in the jacuzzi before getting ready for our dinner reservations and show that evening and actually made it.  

My slave made reservations at a seafood and steakhouse with him knowing i love seafood and him being a man who loves his red meat.  Dinner was quiet but sweet as he respected that My hangover still had a good hold of Me, but we laughed about the evening that led up to this.  

My slave being the good boy he is (I think I mentioned this earlier) took Me to see thunder from down under and I will admit it is an entertaining show.  And I have added photos to show what an amazing time I had.  

Thursday we decided to rent a car and we went to Fremont which is more like a street festival with cheap food, cheap gambling and fun things to do (although we found a lovely restaurant for a late lunch complete with champagne and some seafood along with a beet salad for Myself). 

We decided to take advantage of our dvd player in our living room of our suite and enjoyed a late night movie, some wine and more room service appetizers.  

I had My slave prepack most of My things as I like to be prepared and got ready for bed because I had more spa time that next morning.  

My slave took care of the rest of the packing as I enjoyed more spa time and relaxation (our flight was not until later) and then I showered and got ready at the spa and we met for lunch then did some shopping and then dropped our car off at the rental place and got checked in and made it 20 mins prior to boarding our plane.  

All in all I did not give you every dirty little detail, after all what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas, but I can say I had a marvelous time and am thankful to all the birthday gifts I came home to as well as emails, and messages from those wishing Me a happy birthday while I was gone.  

And most of all I want to thank My slave for making sure I had a fantastic fun filled birthday vacation that every Queen deserves to have, I felt spoiled.  

Thank you all!  

On your Knees! 

Mistress Tiffany  

Its a new Year for Me (My birthday)

It's a new year for Me and My birthday has come this past week and I have decided I really need to blog again.

I meet so many people interested in My life as a Dominatrix from My Kink to vanilla aspects as well as many people who seek out My help and thoughts on BDSM, I hope to start blogging every week from now on and for those who are following if you have any questions or topics you wish to see Me blog about don't be a pussy and take the time to drop Me an email at mindyourdomme@gmail.com let Me know what you want to read about.  I always appreciate feedback.  

I'm back bitches! (Well I've always been here just back to blogging).

On your Knees!

Mistress Tiffany

Professional Dominatrix just for the cash?

I had someone personally write to Me on a BDSM website who complimented My sincerity and profile, but they added that they do not believe in seeing Pro-Dommes who are just seeking to get paid or for the money.

With that this is how I feel....

Sure being a professional Dominatrix is a job, but not something I do just because I get paid,

A Doctor may choose to be a Doctor because she sincerely wants to help people and a Veterinarian because they want to care for animals, I do what I do for a purpose; WITH a purpose and I love it and know I offer a sincere service to those who seek out experience, sincerity and someone who understands them.

It is ashamed that some Woman think they can just grab a whip, take a photo and call themselves a Pro-Domme,  Domination takes a lot of studying, practice and patience.  I have earned My place, My title and I absolutely love being a Dominatrix and I hope that My eagerness and sincerity show people out there that REAL professional Dominatrices do exist.

On your Knees!
Mistress Tiffany

Help for Dominatrix Coral Korrupt.

Posted in My Pro-Domme Network group on Fet Life by Michelle Lacy.


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My Dominatrix friend Coral Korrupt has been battling uterine cancer since May.

She has had a lot of ups and downs, gone through surgery, chemo and internal radiation. Throughout this time, this strong and independent woman has not asked anyone for anything.

Unfortunately, with bad scan results, she now has to go through another round of chemo which will be a high dose and its going to make her quite ill, way worse than before.

As many of you know, we do not get sick pay. We do not get paid vacations. Still we have bills to pay. A lot of her close friends have given her a hand and this strong woman has managed to stay afloat but things are changing now.

Her medical costs are rising and remember this girl still has to take care of herself and keep a roof over herself without working.

If you can donate in any way you can, it would greatly help.

http://www.gofundme.com/coralscancer

If any of you do not know Coral and are skeptical of the campaign, yes, this is her real page. Look her up and ask her and she will confirm it. And I myself have taken her to appointments and seen her ill. She really needs your help.

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For those who can help please do, even if you can only help a little bit, anything can help her.

Thank you,
Mistress Tiffany

Training with Miss Lea and Lady Kathryn.

So what can I say other then I have been super busy, between My personal life and My business life I have been on GO for awhile, but hey I am NOT complaining it is a good kind of busy, you know the kind I am talking about, where it is almost overwhelming but productive?  Yea that's where I am at, a good kind of busy.

So I have had the opportunity to be training with Miss Lea and Lady Kathryn and I have to say it has been a blast.  On Halloween we had a very lucky and devoted victim, who survived almost three hours of torment and teasing.  I found Myself laughing as I was guiding these young Ladies through serious medical scenarios.....

To simple bondage and use of equipment.....

To us laughing so hard when Lady Kathryn decided to use the fella as a toilet and her really needing to relieve herself on him for her amusement.....

Which reminds Me I need to get a new toilet throne!  Who wants to get us one?  

People may be wondering how I am training these Ladies and one thing that I feel is important about their training and for anyone I choose to train is that they figure out their own style, we are all different as Dominants and I feel it is important for Me to help them find themselves while making sure they understand the safe and proper way to use the "tools of a Dominant" and the equipment; there is a right and wrong way to do things and some scenes may seem simple, but if done wrong can be damaging.  

The BEST way for these Ladies to learn is when they watch Me conduct a session or when I join them for a session or even better when someone books a duo or even a trio session.  So for those curious, don't be too chicken to be under our control you are going to love it, trust Me.  

With that said training is going well and we are Women who really enjoy playing and are surprisingly compatible in session and that is the most important.  

On your Knees!  

Mistress Tiffany  

Changes.

There have been so many wonderful changes in My life, both personally and professionally since I have moved to DC.  

I was extremely delighted when I made the move to DC/Northern Va. from Atlanta Ga last November.  and I became ecstatic when I found out I was pregnant with our second child after we moved here, but sad that My new position as a Pro-Domme in DC was so short for being so new to the area.  I knew with time that I would return and I have made My return to actively offering sessions again. 

With My return I have selectively been seeing submissives for sessions and I have to say every session has been amazing and I have been delightfully spoiled with such great slaves who have been serving Me well.  

Upcoming changes:

I know I have just returned, but I am going to be out October 8th through October 15th to have a laproscopic hernia repair surgery.  I anticipate that I should be able to handle sessions with-in a week after (I have had this surgery before), however if I can not bounce back in a week I can delay another week, but the good news is I am training a couple of Dommes/switches who will be working with Me and these Ladies are amazing people and are going to be fun to work with and I can book sessions for submissives who want to play with My new friends while I am not working during this short time,

I have so many goals coming up and I feel positive about both My personal and professional goals and I want to share them.

So with the past changes come the up-coming changes.  

Personal and professional goals.  

1.  Although I did not gain wait during My pregnancy over the past year I could not work out while I was pregnant and although I am a statuesque and curvy gal, I do love to work out, I have a goal to drop 20 to 30lbs by January and am happy to do this with My active work outs which include cardio/Zumba (that shit is hard) and free weights.  I love working out and need more then just a walk, so I am looking forward to getting back into My work out routine.  

2.  I have hired a couple of Women to work with Me and both are amazing so I am training them, I know the people that have the opportunity meet them will love them, both Ladies are attractive and inquisitive open-minded Women who love to play.  These Ladies will be a part of My expansion plan as well.  

3.  Another goal is to expand My PRIVATE space and move to having a multi room space with different themes,  I am hoping to have this space done with-in the next 2 to 3 months.  If you want to help you can always email Me and ask Me how you can assist Myself and Fem Domme friends.  

So there they are just a few goals I have for the rest of this year, I am really looking forward to achieving My own personal and professional success and can not wait to get things going and in the mean time you can enjoy serving Myself and My Fem Domme friends here in the Northern Va area. I have added some new toys to My current private space and a bed for bedroom bondage and bedroom Domination fantasies.   

I can not wait to show you the current changes I have going on and am excited to introduce you to all the new changes coming up.  

On your Knees!  

Mistress Tiffany  

Enjoy the new photo I had taken this past weekend.  

Why can I just not live off of chocolate?

I guess it is every Woman's dream (well almost) to be able to live off of chocolate and better yet what if chocolate could be a diet food that helped us lose or maintain our weight?

It is a lovely thought, but let's face it, no one can live off of chocolate even if we wish we could.

So why the fuck am I writing about living off of chocolate?  Well I was eating chocolate the other day before I had breakfast and I thought man I wish I could live off chocolate and it made Me think about My health and how I have learned moderation and balance and then I realized I do the same thing with BDSM and Domination.

The reality is we can not live off of chocolate, we would probably eventually die if we just lived off of chocolate, the same goes with BDSM, porn (not to categorize them) or anything that people overly indulge in and this is where I realized that BDSM and Domination can be addicting but I feel it is something I balance out for the slaves I see, I make sure that the "dose" of Domination you get from Mistress Tiffany is healthy, good for you and down right sinfully tasty.  We all can have a healthy balance of the things we indulge in it is all the simple matter of how we ingest things, so to speak.

In other words when going in for a session, go in with your mind, not your cock; that little fucker can get you in a lot of trouble if you think about it.

If you leave your session with-out regret then you know it was damn good.

And if you truly feel happy and enlightened by your experience then your session more than likely gave you a healthy dose of EXACTLY what you needed.

So before you go diving into a whole box of chocolates make sure you know just what you're biting into.

On your Knees!
Mistress Tiffany

Why do you see a Professional Dominatrix?

Recently I asked members in one of My Fet Life groups "Pro Domme Network"
"Why do you choose to see Pro-Dommes" and I got some great answers, but I wanted to share one that I feel put it realistically.

This submissive says.....

Most lifestyle-only Dommes seem to want a relationship that's long term and more about the D/s than the S&M play. A lot want total control over a guy 24/7. Some will make their subs/slaves jump through an endless series of hoops and use S&M play as a carrot or reward. With a good professional Domme you can explore any type of S&M play (or whatever else you're looking for) for a finite amount of time without any other strings attached if that's what you prefer. When the session is over you have control of your life again. Then you go back when you need another "fix". It simply, easy, straight to the point and hopefully, a lot of fun! :)

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I feel Professional Domination truly has a lot to offer submissives and when you really get down to it it is a mutual agreement and satisfying experience between two consenting adults.  

Being a professional to Me allows Me to personally help submissives explore their fetishes and BDSM Fantasies with-out strings or with-out it being "too" personal.  I must say I am extremely personable during that time, but will admit when I am in a session that time is for play and then they leave, if they call again great if they don't then fine, either way I want to make sure whether I am seeing someone only once, multiple times or for years that they have an experience with Me that's unforgettable.  

On your Knees!  
Mistress Tiffany 

Is it just a fantasy?

Clear your mind. . .
Seriously clear your mind and imagine. . .

you arrive to meet Her for the first time, you have seen Her photos you have read about Her and now you're standing on Her door step, you see the doorbell wondering how things are going to be for the next two hours after you ring that doorbell, after all She did make a promise that you will NEVER forget Her after you meet that She will always be engrained into your mind, what did She mean when she said that?  You feel fear, excitement, arousal and nervousness, you never knew that meeting someone could stir so many different emotions at once.  But you finally do it, it's like ripping a bandaid off fast just do it ring the doorbell, so you do it.

you find yourself standing there for what seems like forever but is only a few seconds before you hear the latch on the door, you see her head pop out from behind the door as the rest of her is standing behind the door, it is hard to see her quite clearly between the bright sun outside and the darkness inside, you can see familiar features that you saw in her photos and then you see her smile and tell you to come in.  As you step inside your eyes focus from the change of lighting and you now can clearly see Her stunning face, Her red lips and those eyes that mesmerized you from Her photos, then you notice why She was standing behind her door, She was dressed in a short leather skirt, stockings, open toe high heels, a sexy red bra and corset, it's obvious She did not want to flaunt Her seductive attire to any possible neighbors.

She then asks you to follow her down a short set of stairs bringing you down a dimly lit hallway, She shows you where the restroom facilities are and then opens the door next to it, you slowly walk in behind Her and hear soft music, but you can not quite recognize the genre; but then again the music is the least of your thoughts at this time, you notice a large bed adorned with pillows and clean linens and as you look a little closer you see that the bed has been slightly modified, but you're not quite sure how.  you continue to follow Her into the room and you notice the space is small, quaint, but quite equipped, almost overwhelming and it makes you wonder if She could possibly use everything She has on you and how She would use them.

She then sits on a fainting sofa and invites you to kneel in front of her, you promptly kneel and She then grabs you by the top of your slacks and belt pulling you towards Her, telling you to come closer, so you inch your way towards Her and She continues to pull you more "closer slave" She says to you in a very sultry voice.  Finally you find yourself pressed against Her crossed legs and She leans into you rubbing your chest, through your shirt, She then asks you a few questions and insists on getting the formalities out of the way, She asks what it is that you desire to serve Her, you find yourself out of breath as you notice Her lovely fragrance it is subtle, seductive yet Feminine and you you take a moment to remind yourself to speak and you find yourself commenting with "anything that pleases you Mistress".  You then notice Her crack a smile, it is almost mischievous and She approves of your answer but reminds you that She is aware of your boundaries and that you need to know She does not plan on crossing them and assures you that you are safe.

She then asks you to stand as She stands, and She asks you to take your shoes off, so you slide your shoes off and Mistress then takes them and sets them to the side, you notice She stopped giving commands at this point and then She starts to circle you like a shark would circle it's pray, you find your heart is racing as She is circling around you She is running her hands and nails over your clothed body, your cock starts to stir and you find yourself feeling flushed and embarrassed at your erection.  you do your best to attempt to hide it by pulling your hips in and then before you know it She is standing in front of you unbuttoning your shirt, your heart is racing more, your cock is getting harder and as She unbuttons the last button She slowly slides your shirt off while running her hands down your arms and back, Her touch gives you goosebumps.  She then sits back down  and grabs you again by the top of your pants and belt and pulls you closer to you again but more aggressively and you find yourself becoming more flush, trying to control your erection, telling yourself to get it down before She sees it and then She in an instant unbuckles your belt and in one pull yanks your belt out from your pants and belt loops, you begin to feel even more vulnerable and yet still extremely aroused no matter how much you tell yourself to calm down.  She then progresses by unbuttoning your pants and slowly pulls them down to your ankles and then she notices the bulge in your underwear and grins.  "Well what do we have here" and in one quick pull She yanks your underwear down to your ankles and looks up and smiles even bigger and nods in approval.  And then looks at you and says "Oh the fun I am going to have with you".

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It is our imagination, creativity and minds that truly stimulate us and keep us on edge with-out that you have no true release or satisfaction.

Mistress Tiffany

Pro-Dommes on display?

I have to totally vent in this post, after surrounding Myself with the many Pro-Dommes this past weekend from Dom Con I have to ask Myself, how many Dommes put themselves on display? Is this what we do? Is this how men see us? Seriously?

I do not view Myself this way, but a friend of Mine was showing Me a website of a Domme from the area I am relocating soon, I was sifting through her site and then My friend pointed out some photos, photos of her strategically posed in what I call a face down ass up pose, now this does not necessarily mean her face is to the floor, but it is a pose where this ass is thrusted out and the face is away, it is clearly a photo to expose the bare or close to bare ass cheeks, I see this quite often where it is an obvious position of sexual entrance for a man whether she is in a chair, standing against a wall or lying on a bed, in My personal position I do not feel this is a stance of Dominance, I feel a Woman can share sensual and erotic images of her derriere in a tasteful and Female empowering way.

So what is My personal issue with this?  This is NOT a personal issue, this is My professional issue, personally I have some risqué photos, professionally I do not wish to display them as this gives men the wrong idea of what true Female Domination is in a professional atmosphere.  When professionals like Myself have men approaching asking for obvious "kinky sex" or sexual acts such as rimming, oral sex, etc. this gets frustrating, of course men are going to want this when they see Women exposing themselves in this manner, we are a product of ourselves, and if we look like we are selling sex, this is what the "consumers" will expect.  So if a Woman calls herself a Dominatrix (A Superior/assertive being to men) but displays herself in a position of a sexual bottom then how are men going to look at the rest of us?

It is becoming more common and having to turn away clients on the phone because over half ask Me for some sort of rimming or oral sex is quite frustrating and I know many other Femme Dommes who feel the same way I do.

So why are they doing it?

The money? Because they like it? or because they feel this is what Dominance is?

Personally it is not fair for Me to state that sexual Dominance does not have a real position in BDSM, this is not true, personally I enjoy sexual Domination, but professionally this is not what I am about.  I do not find Domination sexual, I find it sensual, arousing and it takes Me to a place mentally where sex cannot take Me; yes Domination for some people especially men has sexual undertones to it, because it causes arousal for many, but to Me there are different states of arousal, those that have experienced true Domination, whether it is mild and sensual or intense and hardcore know that it is a rush, it is exciting, taboo and fun when done by an experienced professional. 

My personal vision of a Dominant is one in power, one who is looked upon, one who is placed in a Superior position of power.  This is why we are called Mistresses (the head of a house hold), Queens/Princesses (Royalty), Goddess (A superior deity).  We as Dommes give ourselves these titles of Superiority because we are in  position of control, power and superiority and quite frankly when I look at some Women's photos who call themselves Dommes and they place themselves with their asses in thongs or bare, bent over, My first thought is I want to put on a strap on and pound the shit out of them, so what do you think men think? 

The frustration lies in what makes a Dominant Woman truly Dominant, we are all different and I respect a Dommes right to do whatever she wants to do in session, but she should respect herself and know we are NOT selling ourselves, we are selling something that prostitutes cannot sell and that is a pure Psychological BDSM encounter.  If you are going to sell yourself as a Fetish Escort then recognize yourself as one there is nothing wrong with that, but there needs to be a clear indication to men what a Dominatrix is and what a Fetish escort is. 

We do not need to display ourselves like fine pieces of prime meat and yes I understand men are visual photos are important, but what is the epitome of a Dominant or powerful Woman to you?  Personally I expect My clients to respect Me in every way and if I can not respect My own body, My own being and My own superiority then how can they truly respect Me and serve Me as a Dominant?

I will continue to educate those on the power of sensual Dominance, we are Women, we are powerful and we have more control then we realize and I love it!

Steps down from My podium. 

your Superior,

Mistress Tiffany