Professional Dominatrix just for the cash?

I had someone personally write to Me on a BDSM website who complimented My sincerity and profile, but they added that they do not believe in seeing Pro-Dommes who are just seeking to get paid or for the money.

With that this is how I feel....

Sure being a professional Dominatrix is a job, but not something I do just because I get paid,

A Doctor may choose to be a Doctor because she sincerely wants to help people and a Veterinarian because they want to care for animals, I do what I do for a purpose; WITH a purpose and I love it and know I offer a sincere service to those who seek out experience, sincerity and someone who understands them.

It is ashamed that some Woman think they can just grab a whip, take a photo and call themselves a Pro-Domme,  Domination takes a lot of studying, practice and patience.  I have earned My place, My title and I absolutely love being a Dominatrix and I hope that My eagerness and sincerity show people out there that REAL professional Dominatrices do exist.

On your Knees!
Mistress Tiffany

Help for Dominatrix Coral Korrupt.

Posted in My Pro-Domme Network group on Fet Life by Michelle Lacy.


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My Dominatrix friend Coral Korrupt has been battling uterine cancer since May.

She has had a lot of ups and downs, gone through surgery, chemo and internal radiation. Throughout this time, this strong and independent woman has not asked anyone for anything.

Unfortunately, with bad scan results, she now has to go through another round of chemo which will be a high dose and its going to make her quite ill, way worse than before.

As many of you know, we do not get sick pay. We do not get paid vacations. Still we have bills to pay. A lot of her close friends have given her a hand and this strong woman has managed to stay afloat but things are changing now.

Her medical costs are rising and remember this girl still has to take care of herself and keep a roof over herself without working.

If you can donate in any way you can, it would greatly help.

http://www.gofundme.com/coralscancer

If any of you do not know Coral and are skeptical of the campaign, yes, this is her real page. Look her up and ask her and she will confirm it. And I myself have taken her to appointments and seen her ill. She really needs your help.

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For those who can help please do, even if you can only help a little bit, anything can help her.

Thank you,
Mistress Tiffany

Training with Miss Lea and Lady Kathryn.

So what can I say other then I have been super busy, between My personal life and My business life I have been on GO for awhile, but hey I am NOT complaining it is a good kind of busy, you know the kind I am talking about, where it is almost overwhelming but productive?  Yea that's where I am at, a good kind of busy.

So I have had the opportunity to be training with Miss Lea and Lady Kathryn and I have to say it has been a blast.  On Halloween we had a very lucky and devoted victim, who survived almost three hours of torment and teasing.  I found Myself laughing as I was guiding these young Ladies through serious medical scenarios.....

To simple bondage and use of equipment.....

To us laughing so hard when Lady Kathryn decided to use the fella as a toilet and her really needing to relieve herself on him for her amusement.....

Which reminds Me I need to get a new toilet throne!  Who wants to get us one?  

People may be wondering how I am training these Ladies and one thing that I feel is important about their training and for anyone I choose to train is that they figure out their own style, we are all different as Dominants and I feel it is important for Me to help them find themselves while making sure they understand the safe and proper way to use the "tools of a Dominant" and the equipment; there is a right and wrong way to do things and some scenes may seem simple, but if done wrong can be damaging.  

The BEST way for these Ladies to learn is when they watch Me conduct a session or when I join them for a session or even better when someone books a duo or even a trio session.  So for those curious, don't be too chicken to be under our control you are going to love it, trust Me.  

With that said training is going well and we are Women who really enjoy playing and are surprisingly compatible in session and that is the most important.  

On your Knees!  

Mistress Tiffany  

Changes.

There have been so many wonderful changes in My life, both personally and professionally since I have moved to DC.  

I was extremely delighted when I made the move to DC/Northern Va. from Atlanta Ga last November.  and I became ecstatic when I found out I was pregnant with our second child after we moved here, but sad that My new position as a Pro-Domme in DC was so short for being so new to the area.  I knew with time that I would return and I have made My return to actively offering sessions again. 

With My return I have selectively been seeing submissives for sessions and I have to say every session has been amazing and I have been delightfully spoiled with such great slaves who have been serving Me well.  

Upcoming changes:

I know I have just returned, but I am going to be out October 8th through October 15th to have a laproscopic hernia repair surgery.  I anticipate that I should be able to handle sessions with-in a week after (I have had this surgery before), however if I can not bounce back in a week I can delay another week, but the good news is I am training a couple of Dommes/switches who will be working with Me and these Ladies are amazing people and are going to be fun to work with and I can book sessions for submissives who want to play with My new friends while I am not working during this short time,

I have so many goals coming up and I feel positive about both My personal and professional goals and I want to share them.

So with the past changes come the up-coming changes.  

Personal and professional goals.  

1.  Although I did not gain wait during My pregnancy over the past year I could not work out while I was pregnant and although I am a statuesque and curvy gal, I do love to work out, I have a goal to drop 20 to 30lbs by January and am happy to do this with My active work outs which include cardio/Zumba (that shit is hard) and free weights.  I love working out and need more then just a walk, so I am looking forward to getting back into My work out routine.  

2.  I have hired a couple of Women to work with Me and both are amazing so I am training them, I know the people that have the opportunity meet them will love them, both Ladies are attractive and inquisitive open-minded Women who love to play.  These Ladies will be a part of My expansion plan as well.  

3.  Another goal is to expand My PRIVATE space and move to having a multi room space with different themes,  I am hoping to have this space done with-in the next 2 to 3 months.  If you want to help you can always email Me and ask Me how you can assist Myself and Fem Domme friends.  

So there they are just a few goals I have for the rest of this year, I am really looking forward to achieving My own personal and professional success and can not wait to get things going and in the mean time you can enjoy serving Myself and My Fem Domme friends here in the Northern Va area. I have added some new toys to My current private space and a bed for bedroom bondage and bedroom Domination fantasies.   

I can not wait to show you the current changes I have going on and am excited to introduce you to all the new changes coming up.  

On your Knees!  

Mistress Tiffany  

Enjoy the new photo I had taken this past weekend.  

Why can I just not live off of chocolate?

I guess it is every Woman's dream (well almost) to be able to live off of chocolate and better yet what if chocolate could be a diet food that helped us lose or maintain our weight?

It is a lovely thought, but let's face it, no one can live off of chocolate even if we wish we could.

So why the fuck am I writing about living off of chocolate?  Well I was eating chocolate the other day before I had breakfast and I thought man I wish I could live off chocolate and it made Me think about My health and how I have learned moderation and balance and then I realized I do the same thing with BDSM and Domination.

The reality is we can not live off of chocolate, we would probably eventually die if we just lived off of chocolate, the same goes with BDSM, porn (not to categorize them) or anything that people overly indulge in and this is where I realized that BDSM and Domination can be addicting but I feel it is something I balance out for the slaves I see, I make sure that the "dose" of Domination you get from Mistress Tiffany is healthy, good for you and down right sinfully tasty.  We all can have a healthy balance of the things we indulge in it is all the simple matter of how we ingest things, so to speak.

In other words when going in for a session, go in with your mind, not your cock; that little fucker can get you in a lot of trouble if you think about it.

If you leave your session with-out regret then you know it was damn good.

And if you truly feel happy and enlightened by your experience then your session more than likely gave you a healthy dose of EXACTLY what you needed.

So before you go diving into a whole box of chocolates make sure you know just what you're biting into.

On your Knees!
Mistress Tiffany

Why do you see a Professional Dominatrix?

Recently I asked members in one of My Fet Life groups "Pro Domme Network"
"Why do you choose to see Pro-Dommes" and I got some great answers, but I wanted to share one that I feel put it realistically.

This submissive says.....

Most lifestyle-only Dommes seem to want a relationship that's long term and more about the D/s than the S&M play. A lot want total control over a guy 24/7. Some will make their subs/slaves jump through an endless series of hoops and use S&M play as a carrot or reward. With a good professional Domme you can explore any type of S&M play (or whatever else you're looking for) for a finite amount of time without any other strings attached if that's what you prefer. When the session is over you have control of your life again. Then you go back when you need another "fix". It simply, easy, straight to the point and hopefully, a lot of fun! :)

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I feel Professional Domination truly has a lot to offer submissives and when you really get down to it it is a mutual agreement and satisfying experience between two consenting adults.  

Being a professional to Me allows Me to personally help submissives explore their fetishes and BDSM Fantasies with-out strings or with-out it being "too" personal.  I must say I am extremely personable during that time, but will admit when I am in a session that time is for play and then they leave, if they call again great if they don't then fine, either way I want to make sure whether I am seeing someone only once, multiple times or for years that they have an experience with Me that's unforgettable.  

On your Knees!  
Mistress Tiffany 

Is it just a fantasy?

Clear your mind. . .
Seriously clear your mind and imagine. . .

you arrive to meet Her for the first time, you have seen Her photos you have read about Her and now you're standing on Her door step, you see the doorbell wondering how things are going to be for the next two hours after you ring that doorbell, after all She did make a promise that you will NEVER forget Her after you meet that She will always be engrained into your mind, what did She mean when she said that?  You feel fear, excitement, arousal and nervousness, you never knew that meeting someone could stir so many different emotions at once.  But you finally do it, it's like ripping a bandaid off fast just do it ring the doorbell, so you do it.

you find yourself standing there for what seems like forever but is only a few seconds before you hear the latch on the door, you see her head pop out from behind the door as the rest of her is standing behind the door, it is hard to see her quite clearly between the bright sun outside and the darkness inside, you can see familiar features that you saw in her photos and then you see her smile and tell you to come in.  As you step inside your eyes focus from the change of lighting and you now can clearly see Her stunning face, Her red lips and those eyes that mesmerized you from Her photos, then you notice why She was standing behind her door, She was dressed in a short leather skirt, stockings, open toe high heels, a sexy red bra and corset, it's obvious She did not want to flaunt Her seductive attire to any possible neighbors.

She then asks you to follow her down a short set of stairs bringing you down a dimly lit hallway, She shows you where the restroom facilities are and then opens the door next to it, you slowly walk in behind Her and hear soft music, but you can not quite recognize the genre; but then again the music is the least of your thoughts at this time, you notice a large bed adorned with pillows and clean linens and as you look a little closer you see that the bed has been slightly modified, but you're not quite sure how.  you continue to follow Her into the room and you notice the space is small, quaint, but quite equipped, almost overwhelming and it makes you wonder if She could possibly use everything She has on you and how She would use them.

She then sits on a fainting sofa and invites you to kneel in front of her, you promptly kneel and She then grabs you by the top of your slacks and belt pulling you towards Her, telling you to come closer, so you inch your way towards Her and She continues to pull you more "closer slave" She says to you in a very sultry voice.  Finally you find yourself pressed against Her crossed legs and She leans into you rubbing your chest, through your shirt, She then asks you a few questions and insists on getting the formalities out of the way, She asks what it is that you desire to serve Her, you find yourself out of breath as you notice Her lovely fragrance it is subtle, seductive yet Feminine and you you take a moment to remind yourself to speak and you find yourself commenting with "anything that pleases you Mistress".  You then notice Her crack a smile, it is almost mischievous and She approves of your answer but reminds you that She is aware of your boundaries and that you need to know She does not plan on crossing them and assures you that you are safe.

She then asks you to stand as She stands, and She asks you to take your shoes off, so you slide your shoes off and Mistress then takes them and sets them to the side, you notice She stopped giving commands at this point and then She starts to circle you like a shark would circle it's pray, you find your heart is racing as She is circling around you She is running her hands and nails over your clothed body, your cock starts to stir and you find yourself feeling flushed and embarrassed at your erection.  you do your best to attempt to hide it by pulling your hips in and then before you know it She is standing in front of you unbuttoning your shirt, your heart is racing more, your cock is getting harder and as She unbuttons the last button She slowly slides your shirt off while running her hands down your arms and back, Her touch gives you goosebumps.  She then sits back down  and grabs you again by the top of your pants and belt and pulls you closer to you again but more aggressively and you find yourself becoming more flush, trying to control your erection, telling yourself to get it down before She sees it and then She in an instant unbuckles your belt and in one pull yanks your belt out from your pants and belt loops, you begin to feel even more vulnerable and yet still extremely aroused no matter how much you tell yourself to calm down.  She then progresses by unbuttoning your pants and slowly pulls them down to your ankles and then she notices the bulge in your underwear and grins.  "Well what do we have here" and in one quick pull She yanks your underwear down to your ankles and looks up and smiles even bigger and nods in approval.  And then looks at you and says "Oh the fun I am going to have with you".

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It is our imagination, creativity and minds that truly stimulate us and keep us on edge with-out that you have no true release or satisfaction.

Mistress Tiffany