This advice is general advice and is not intended to insult anyone, but there are just some people out there who are rude, disrespectful and waste a Dommes time, this advice will help assure you of a better experience with a Professional Dominatrix.
1. Do your homework on the Domme before calling her.
a. Read the information she provides on her website.
b. Make sure you READ over her list of interests and if you do not see your particular interest listed then send her an email letting her know what you’re interested in, do not call her unless she clearly states on her site you can call to ask questions about unlisted interests. Most Dommes do not appreciate someone calling them unless you are calling for an appointment.
c. If she has a blog read it, she will be impressed that you took the time to read what she wrote.
d. If she has links to reviews check those out if you desire to do so. (Mind you not all good quality have reviews, some may even prefer to not have reviews).
2. Watch your mouth on the phone. Be respectful and selfless. Allow the Domme to do her job, tell her you’re interested in possibly booking an appointment and tell her when. At that time she will ask you what your interests are if she does not ask her permission if you can let her know what you’re looking for in your session with her. Be careful what you say on the phone with a Domme. Refer to your interests with how she has them worded; learn to read between the lines. Another way of communicating specific interests are by telling her what photos you’re attracted to so she gets the gist. Do not demand a Domme repeat what you’re saying on the phone, if she’s not interested in something she will let you know.
3. Communicate, yes it is not good to be overly blunt about certain things, just use common sense, do not be overly shy, if you’re a little too shy on the phone you may want to initiate an email. Communicate what you like and what you know you do not like.
4. Let the Domme know why you decided to call her for an appointment and why you feel you might be compatible with her. It is also nice to let her know where you found out about her.
5. Do not book if you’re not ready, if you’re not ready just clarify that you will call her when you’re ready. If you're nervous you can ask if she can meet you for a consultation at her place, coffee, lunch or dinner (all for a donation of course). Most Dommes do offer this with a reasonable donation and some will even include it into your session rate if you decide to book. It does not hurt to ask.
6. Do not waste her time on the phone. Try to get to the point, us Dommes are good at knowing when someone is a timewaster, some guys feel like they are just trying to get to know a Domme, but if you get on the phone to talk to a Domme to arouse yourself we will know it, so do not do it, get a phone session if you want to get your prick off.
7. Make sure you are providing a days’ notice for an appointment (unless a Domme specifies she can do shorter notice). I know must subbie boys call when the mood strikes and if you are one of those email a Domme and tell her you are the type who prefers same day appointments and ask her what he can do to accommodate that if possible. She may have a same day opening.
8. Dommes do not typically like a submissive to script out their sessions, do not offer this unless a Domme specifies she is ok with this.
9. Make sure when you book your appointment that you try to call when you’re on your way so she knows or call if she specifies a second call.
10. Do not be too early when arriving and do not be late, if you think you might be running late call and tell her, if you’re early I suggest you find something to do until the time of your appointment.
Just remember to be a gentleman, be polite and courteous, if you are polite and a gentleman and her reaction does not feel right to you then do not book an appointment over-all it is important for both the submissive and the Domme to feel comfortable with each other.
your Superior,
Mistress Tiffany
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