Thursday, October 20, 2022

1 hour sessions and same day sessions are now being offered.

I wanted to announce that I am now offering 1 hour sessions (trial) to see how I feel about it.  

I am also offering same day sessions with 4-6 hours notice for an additional $200 fee.  (Again just a trial).  


1 hour sessions and same day appointments are something that I am constantly asked for so I am going to offer them; with some stipulations.  

VIP Packages- I will still be offering My VIP packages which offers great discounts,  Visit My VIP page.  This offers great discounts for multiple sessions.  Take a look at those and see if those suit you.  

1 hour Session-  If you are looking for a session for 1 hour I will offer these sessions for ONLY $300.  These sessions MUST be paid in FULL when you reserve the 1 hour option.  So instead of paying a retainer you will be paying the full session rate.  The rate is not refundable unless I can not make the session, in the event I can't make I will return your full session that you paid for.  1 hour sessions are intended to be shorter sessions, I can not provide a long detailed list of fantasy fulfillment and will be willing to focus on 1-2 of your fetishes and Kinks during our 1 hour session together.  If I feel I can not provide your fantasies and kinks in 1 hour I will be honest and suggest a 2 hour session.  

Same day sessions-  If you want a same day session you will need to add an additional $200 to your requested appointment (packages, outcalls and extended sessions and excluded) this is for 1 hour - 2 hour - 3 hour INCALL ala-cart sessions only.  I have the right to request a higher retainer or full payment at the time you book a same day appointment.  Keep in mind I can NOT guarantee a same day session.  You will need to fill out the Questionnaire and then CALL Me at the number located on My contact page of My site.  The moment you CALL is when I can assure the 4-6 hour time frame.  Do NOT email asking for a same day appointment, if you do this I will ignore your request.  You MUST call after filling out the Questionnaire; this is the only way I will accommodate a same day appointment.  I can not make special clothing requests that are extensive for same day sessions.  But rest assure I will always look fabulous.  


I hope these changes are something that you are pleased with and are able to utilize.  As always I do My best to provide reasonable rates for My Sessions.  Managing one of the largest private Dungeons in the DMV area does take work and I like to be best prepared for all of My sessions and clients.  


I will see you soon.  

On your Knees!  

Mistress Tiffany  

www.MindyourDomme.com

OnlyFans.com/mindyourdomme

Phone/Text sessions-  SextPanther.com/Mistress-Tiffany





Wednesday, March 3, 2021

Well Hello its Been Awhile.

I know it has been awhile since I have updated My blog here for you all but here I am...

updating My blog and I hope to be able to do that weekly.  


With that said I just wanted to let you know what is going on in My little COVID bubble.  


First of all I am still taking sessions and really never stopped, I just have been as cautious as I could be.  My only break was when I had plastic surgery back in September.  

Other than that I feel I have done My best to protect Myself and clients.  

I now am requiring clients to wear a mask in session as well as Myself, I know for some this ruins the mood, but we can make it pretty hot too.  

I have also limited the number of sessions I do to no more then a week.  This means I can book up quickly, but no worries I can also put you on a wait list if you call to book with no avail.  I do require all clients who book to pay a retainer to hold their appointment to assure sincerity so I am not taking up space or time for other clients or any partners who work from My location.  I am sure most of you understand this and I appreciate it.  


I did recieve My first COVID vaccine this past weekend and anticipate to be fully vaccinated by mid April at this point I will see clients unmasked if they and Myself are both vaccinated fully (you will have to show your card for proof).  


On another topic My partner Miss Jay has decided to separate individually from Bastille Dungeon as she wants to manage her own client calls.  Unfortunately I only work with Fem Dommes who are partnered directly to My dungeon, although they are independent; because Bastille Dungeon is a Private Dungeon and as someone who has been managing and running dungeons for 20+ years I prefer to manage all bookings and client calls to assure the safety, privacy and discretion of My own private space and sanctuary.  With that said I do hope to have a more "rental" friendly space in the future for Pro-Dommes to utilize that is more commercial, but as many know My space is private and I intend to keep it that way.  It also can become confusing with multiple Dommes doing individual bookings with only 1 space available and I just do not want to run into that potential train wreck.  

Miss Jay is an Intelligent Woman who will continue to strive in the professional BDSM community and I am glad that she understands My policies regarding My feelings on Me booking all clients personally for My Private Dungeon.  As always all partners who work with Me are independent contractors who manage their own emails, social media and although I create their websites based on what they want; they do have complete full access to update and manage their schedules.  (I just wanted to clarify that).  All the best to a great Lady - Miss Jay.  We are still available to tease, taunt and torment you for duo sessions.  


I want to than you for taking the time to read My recent updates and I hope you all continue to stay safe and take care of yourselves.  


On your Knees!  

Mistress Tiffany 



Friday, October 9, 2020

Updates for October.

I am always excited for the Fall, it is My favorite time of the year.  


Most of you may have noticed I took a month off from mid September to Mid October.  

I wasn't traveling nor did I go on a big adventure but I did do something pretty big.


Most people would not be so open talking about this but I do not have an issue sharing what I did with My time off.  

After years and years of wanting some plastic surgery I finally went and did it.  

I was under for 7.5 hours where My surgeon performed..... 

  • An Extend abdominoplasty (Tummy tuck) where believe it or not they removed 15 lbs of skin! (I know sexy stuff eh)?  But can you imagine the transformation that made?  
  • I experienced Liposuction in many areas from the flanks, back, and along the side of My breast (under the arm).  
  • I also had a Brazilian Butt Lift Where the surgeon added some enhanced curves in My hips and bottom (More ass for you to worship).  


Admittedly the recovery has been pretty intense but I am finding Myself more active from doing some shopping, My nail and pedicure appointments etc.  

I still have some recovery ahead and need to not do any strenuous Physical work during Sessions such as physical domination or anything that intense as I have been instructed My My surgeon and plastic surgery team to not do anything that will cause any strain in the abdomen.  I have been cleared to continue to work though.  


I will not see fuller results until a few months post op, but I have to admit the results I see now are amazing already and those who have gotten to see Me can see the huge difference already and you will see them too! 


Because I am easing back into sessions I do prefer to do duo Sessions with My Partner Miss Jay and we are actually offering specials for a week upon My return.  Specials are located on My site on My contact page along with My schedule.  Make sure you pre-book,  

I am capable of doing sessions that are not overly physical if you desire a solo session with Me. 


I am looking forward to returning to sessions and am looking forward to trying on some new outfits for our sessions together. 


Happy Fall!  


Mistress Tiffany  



Thursday, August 20, 2020

Finally - Some Updates for The month of August 2020

Well hello, it has been some time since My last blog update; but here I am!  


I have a lot of information for you here that I am excited to announce so take it all in stride.  


1.  I am excited to announce that My New Dungeon is up and operational, although I am still working on some aesthetics; clients are loving the new space. I hope you will enjoy it too.  It has been fun doing some painting (I am still working on more design texture painting) but the space is lovely.  

2.  Miss Jay is now accepting sessions again.  Make sure you read her COVID information on her site by clicking here.  

3.  Google voice sucks - Apparently after using google for over 8 years with the same number they have decided to disable My number.  Although I hope to get this resolved, I do have another phone with a number you can use - 202-913-4602.  

4.  I have changed My phone hours to when I will accept your calls to book your reservations.  Those New hours are Noon-10pm.  The early hours have been cut out for calls but I have extended My phone hours for you.  

5.  I will be taking an extended sabbatical September 16th - October 14th.  Miss Jay will still be available and My OnlyFans page will be active with content and I will be available for some Texting/Sexting phone sessions on SextPanther some.  However, I will be refraining from in person sessions during this time.  (I will update you on more later or you can follow My Twitter - Instagram - or OnlyFans to be in the know.  

6.  While taking sessions I made the decision to keep My rates the same but have changed My minimum sessions to 2 hours instead of 90 minutes.  

7.  To open My Dungeon properly I am offering Specials (Located on My contact page of My site) as well as specials being offered between Miss Jay and I.  I hope this specials are something you can utilize.  I am offering VIP sessions still but they are for packages that include 2 hours or longer.  


I know this Pandemic has thrown us in for a loop but I have so much going on and am excited that I have been able to share it all with you.  

Thank you to those who have donated to help Me and My partners during this time, the cash app donations as well as PP donations, gift cards, cash gifts and even just the few sessions I have been able to do have been helpful.  Thank you for your continued support of Myself, partners and My Dungeon; La Bastille Dungeon.  


We are taking every precaution to be safe.  Keeping the dungeon clean and sanitized, checking temperatures, providing PPE to those who prefer it, limiting sessions we accept and providing filtration through the air to help kill germs.  We have always used Medical grade cleansers and will continue to do so.  


You can show continued support through

cash app -  $TiffanyDomme

Joining My Only Fans - OnlyFans.com/mindyourdomme

E-Gift cards to -  MindyourDomme@gmail.com


Thank you and play safe.  


On your Knees!  

Mistress Tiffany  



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Wednesday, March 25, 2020

NOVI-19 Update. What Sessions will I be offering during this time?

COVID-19 UPDATE:

I am still offering live in Person sessions selectively to healthy Low risk clients.  I am limiting My sessions so please plan accordingly.  My Dungeon is cleaned with medical grade cleanser between every session and I also have level 3 medical masks.

In the event that you can not see Me for an in person session I am offering webcam, Phone, text, and distance Training.

If you are lonely, need someone to talk to or chat with on cam I do offer counseling and consultation sessions as well as BDSM webcam/Phone sessions

I practice social distancing and am persistent on hand washing and sanitizing.

You will find My space clean and My habits in session to be clean as well.

Email to inquire about sessions - MindyourDomme@gmail.com or simply follow the booking instructions on My contact page.

Stay safe everyone.

Session Information on My site on My sessions page.  www.MindyourDomme.com


Mistress Tiffany



Wednesday, August 29, 2018

I’m a Dominatrix not a fetish model

 I guess many can debate what is the difference between a professional dominatrix and a fetish model? 

 Can there only be one or can they be combined?  

 Personally I know a few good professional dominatrices that have been fetish models and fetish models that have turned into good professional dominatrices.  But I have to say the feedback that I receive from most of my clients that see the typical “fetish model/dominatrix“ ends up extremely disappointed with their session. 

 I find that I have different types of clients that contact Me, fortunately I’m pretty good with marketing I should be that’s My background; sales and marketing. So I tend to attract the right type of clientele.  For Me however there is the rare occasion where I may get a client that is purely a fetishist and has no interest in any sort of submission that’s wanting the more “fetish model type“. 

 This is where I like to remind people that I am a dominatrix not a fetish model.

 Now I have to admit I have done some Fetish modeling in the past.  But any woman just about can put on some make up do her hair and put on the right outfit that some people may stereotype as a dominatrix yet that doesn’t really make that woman a dominatrix.  

 Being a professional dominatrix takes so much more than a good pair of boots and a cat suit.  
 Domination although to most seems purely physical in actuality is 100% psychological. 
 Domination is not purely about pain. Domination is about control and if anybody reads most of the content that I write throughout different social networks that is the one thing that I consistently push; Reminding people that domination is not about physically harming someone, domination is about power exchange one person giving up control willingly and the other person willingly yet  strategically taking control. 

 Many clients are unhappy with seeing a fetish model because a fetish model may typically be accustomed to seeing clients that are happy with a woman who goes down the checklist that stays detached during her session.  Many fetish models also do not deeply study BDSM nor their clients. The clients that feel satisfied with fetish models tend to be predominately attracted to the Woman looking more like a model. Yet many who want to submit are learning that the “model type” can only take you so far. We don’t pick a doctor based off their looks. Why should you select a dominatrix based purely off their appearance?  Again don’t get Me wrong I can understand that a part of our job is the way we look and carry ourselves. Being attractive, feminine or some may prefer a more masculine look either way there is “a look” that people may find appealing. And I understand that for most clients being attracted to the person they are being Dominated by is an important factor. But men need to think before they just going out contacting a Dominatrix.  Some people think that because a Domme does films that she knows what she’s doing. (I am not saying that all film Dommes are bad, many are good). But people call this stuff BDSM “porn” and for Me hearing the words BDSM and “porn” together just does not resonate. Yes Domination is hot, it’s sexy, it’s arousing but when I think of porn I think of sex.  
So when it comes to Women who are doing films it is usually acting. It is someone going through the motions. It is disconnected. It’s just a scene. 

Now if you’re involved the Domme needs to know you, she needs to understand your body physically and your mind and psyche emotionally. Connecting in a session is important to Me whether I see someone once or multiple times. And personally it is making sure that I find that rare way to bond that makes Me a Dominatrix and not just a Fetish model. 

I am highly selective with whom I choose to see. I don’t just take someone’s money and go through the motions and disconnect. I make sure they are able to submit and let go and learn to trust Me during our time together (Thia is why I do not do 1 hour sessions). 

I appreciate each individual that I session with and everyone’s submission is different and unique and it is My job as a Dominatrix to be able to safely and consensually help my clients fullfill their BDSM and Fetish fantasies. It is a responsibility.  And anyone interested in becoming a professional dominatrix should educate them continuously throughout their career.  

And this is why I am a dominatrix first and always, not just a fetish model.

I really love what I do. 

On your Knees! 
Mistress Tiffany 




Tuesday, August 14, 2018

My New Dungeon La Bastille Dungeon.

It has taken a lot of work but I have finally got the bulk of My 1500 sqft Dungeon/Playspace done. 

I had My first private party over the weekend and I have to say I am in some pain, it was a lot of work not only getting My space done in time for the party, but also getting the rest of My place acceptable for guests; after all I just moved less than a month ago.  But I am excited that My friends and party guests enjoyed the space.  I received very positive feedback. 

Out of all the playspaces i have worked in and owned this is the largest I have had to work with and as a friend told Me "Uou will NEVER be done with this space because you will always be moving stuff around, adding things to it and changing it up." and I have to say My friend is right.  It is a space I can always add to and do things with, that is the amazing thing about it. 

Now that the bulk of it is done, I hope My clients know it is time to come and play. 

I'll write more about it, in the meantime enjoy the few photos I have added here; keep in mind the photos do not really give you an idea of the size, you'll just have to come see it. 

On your Knees!
Mistress Tiffany

P.S.  I included a photo of My outfit and blond wig from the Dungeon Opening Party. 
None of the photos are professional.  All are candid I will have a professional photographer come in to capture the space better.  It is really amazing. 


My Opening party attire.


 The second sitting area around the Bondage Frame.


 My very good friend made these for Me, I love them.  








 The photo below is before the walls were done in the main area. I still had a lot of work to do but got the sitting area in the main area done and it is now complete.  I will post more photos soon.



I am still working on the Boudiour area of the Dungeon but it is looking amazing.
This is where I am going to put My new latex vac bed.